A Virgin’s Guide to the First Time

For someone who has never experienced it, sex can seem like a wild, crazy thing that is very difficult to attempt. Media and other people have probably told you that sex is incredible, and that your first time should be like a fairy tale. The problem is that not all sex is awesome, and if you are both virgins, it can be especially difficult. You need to have realistic expectations and a plan if you want your first time to go well and not be a disappointment. Most people have embarrassing stories about their first time doing the deed, but that doesn’t have to be you. Here are a few tips to make sure that you don’t royally mess up the first time that you have sex. Are You Ready? If you are being pressured into sex, or if you feel like you are rushing into things too fast, then do not do it. That is the big picture, the bottom line, the end game. You do not need to have sex if you don’t feel that you are ready. […]

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Date Ideas That Will Knock Her Socks off Instead of Boring Her to Death

Going on dates all the time can be a little strenuous, especially if you aren’t sure where to go. Having a boring date is the worst thing in the world, so you obviously want to avoid that is much as possible. It’s not always easy to know what sorts of things will actually be interesting, however. You want to know what sorts of date ideas will actually intrigue the woman you are taking out instead of Boring her to tears. Sometimes these date ideas can seem few and far between, but you should be able to have great dates as long as you keep these things in mind. Here are some date ideas that will be sure to knock her socks off and gain you tons of brownie points. Skip the Movies and Take Her to a Play or Musical Taking a date to the movies is all well and good, but it can be a little boring to sit in the darkness watching something on a screen. Why not just stay at home and watch TV? Still, if you […]

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How To Maintain a Healthy Polyamorous Relationship

Sleeping and maintaining relationships with multiple partners can be a tricky affair, especially when you are the only one doing it. In order to open up and maintain a polyamorous relationship with your current partner, there are several steps you need to take in order to make it work and maintain all the relationships that you begin. Polyamorous relationships are varied and diverse, and can be anything from an open relationship with multiple different partners for each person, or it can be a relationship with many different people who all are involved with each other. In either case, you need to be aware of everyone’s feelings and try to cultivate an atmosphere of respect and love Honesty You should never lie to your partner, no matter what kind of relationship you have with them. However, in a relationship involving multiple partners, honesty is the absolutely most important thing to do. If your partner can trust you and you can trust your partner, everything will be a lot better for your relationship. You will be able to trust that your partner […]

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